The strongest “No” I ever said
This week, I said one of the strongest NOs of my life.
A deep, unapologetic NO to alcohol and certain substances that are not good for me.
Not because I had to. But because I could.
You have to know…I have a past that was soaked in alcohol and other substances. For the longest time, I couldn’t say no.
I was afraid to be uncool, to be the one who “ruins the fun.” So I played along. I smiled. I said yes when I meant no. And I felt horrible after. Not like myself at all.
In the past years, I’ve already started saying no very often.
But this time at Boom Festival? It was different. It was a breakthrough.
With every no, I felt more power rise in my body.
And guess what?! I enjoyed myself more than ever.
Not only that… something in me softened. I stopped judging others for what they chose. I was so rooted in my own choice, I didn’t care anymore what anyone else thought or did. I was fully with myself.
And that’s the real power of a NO.
Every NO is a YES to yourself.
A yes to your body. Your energy. Your boundaries. Your truth.
The first NOs feel scary.
You think you’ll lose people. You think they’ll see you as boring or too much.
And yeah, I did lose people. Some old friends would probably call me “boring” now.
And honestly? I don’t give a f***.
Because I’ve never felt more alive, more sovereign, and more me.
If you’re growing, you’re going to outgrow people. Environments. Labels. Versions of yourself.
Yes, it hurts.
Yes, it feels lonely for a while.
But when you don’t abandon yourself, the right people will find you.
But first: you have to find you.
And this is where Human Design enters the room.
Because we’ve all been conditioned to be the “good girl.”
Smile. Say yes. Don’t be too much. Don’t question too loudly.
But this time is over.
There’s a collective shift happening – and I know you can feel it, too.
More and more women are stepping into their feminine power and burning down the lies they’ve been telling themselves.
The truth?
If you don’t learn how your unique energy works…
If you don’t reclaim your inner authority…
If you don’t say YES to your body and NO to the noise…
You’ll get left behind. Not because you’re not capable. But because the world is changing fast.
By 2027, we’re moving out of collective systems and into individual power.
This means: You need to know yourself.
Not your labels. Not your titles. Not your coping strategies.
Your real self. Your energetic truth.
Your Human Design Strategy and Authority is the key.
It’s what helps you stop overthinking and start feeling again.
It’s what guides you back to your body and out of the pressure to fit in.
We were never meant to think our way through life.
And yet that’s exactly what’s keeping so many women stuck in anxiety, burnout, over-giving, and self-doubt.
But what if you could come back to the wisdom of your body?
What if you had tools that show you how to listen, trust, and act from that place?
This is what Human Design makes possible.
And this is exactly what I offer inside my 1:1 sessions.
I hear it all the time from my clients:
“This is so empowering.”
Not just because the information is accurate –
But because for the first time, they feel seen, validated, free.
This work isn’t just about knowing your chart.
It’s about owning your power. Setting boundaries.
Stopping the cycle of playing small and being “nice” when what you actually feel is “no.”
I’m not here to sugar-coat it.
I’m here to hold the mirror.
So let me ask you straight:
👉 Are you really fine?
Or are you just used to keeping your standards low so you don’t rock the boat?
👉 Are you thriving?
Or are you still playing along, telling yourself “I don’t need more” just to stay comfortable?
I get it. I was there too.
But it’s time to be honest with yourself.
This is your invitation to make a different choice.
To finally rise into the woman you know you came here to be.
To stop lying to yourself.
And to start trusting the power that’s always lived inside your body.
If you’re ready –
I’m here. And I know how to walk with you through it.